I posted this status update on
Facebook last week...
'It's never good when your dad comes through your door in a blood stained shirt, holding your child, and says, "It's not as bad as it looks..."'
...and then I never gave an explanation. I hate it when people make some vague statement like that and keep you guessing at what might be going on with them.
So, let me explain.
Last Saturday Daddy took Bennett to Ace Hardware with him. It seemed to be taking a while and I started to become slightly concerned. Not
really concerned, but their Ace Hardware runs are typically quick trips and this one was going on an hour.
It wasn't long after I began noticing the length of their trip that they came walking in the back door and Daddy uttered that phrase up there. He was holding Bennett, who was eating a Tootsie Roll Pop. My first thought was, 'why is he eating a tootsie roll pop?' That's just not something we normally give him, especially when he hasn't eaten lunch yet. Of course, I wouldn't be surprised if that sort of thing went on while in the care of his Poppa, but Poppa would have at least hidden the evidence before
bringing him back to me, I assume. :)
Immediately after noticing him eating the Tootsie Roll Pop, I noticed the hand holding the sucker was covered in dried blood, as was the stick of the sucker. And so was Poppa's white shirt, Bennett's jacket, and even his shoes had a big
ol' drop of blood on them. I think the last thing I noticed was the band aid on each fore finger that were both at capacity and almost leaking blood. One finger had two on it, and it had soaked through both of them. He had several other cuts on both hands, but only the two fingers needed bandages, apparently.
All of this is entering my mind at the same time and I'm wondering
what in the world happened???
I never had to ask, though, because Daddy was already explaining. And I'm going to tell this next part without stopping to say, 'and why was he allowed to have that?' or 'and where were you?' or 'and why was he walking around in a hardware store instead of in your arms or in a buggy?' because Daddy feels bad enough, and we all make mistakes. Let's just hope we all learn from them and don't repeat them.
You know those little blown glass things they have the infomercials for that you fill with water and stick in a plant and it slowly waters your plant as oxygen is released from the soil? Well, Bennett managed to get one of those in each hand. Daddy called for him and as he turned, he stumbled. With those glass globes in his hands. He fell to the floor, and both globes shattered in his hands. You probably don't need a whole lot of details, but apparently there was quite a mess at the local Ace Hardware that day.
I trusted Daddy when he said, 'It's not as bad as it looks.' But after Bennett's nap we changed his bandages. We didn't do it before because he was already calmed down and we didn't want to stir things up. When we took the band aid off one finger, it was cut, but not too badly. It did bleed some, but we were able to stick another band aid on there and move on.
When we got to the other finger, the one that had two band aids on it, oh man. Bennett screamed bloody murder as I tried to gently pull the band aids off. As soon as they were off blood started dripping everywhere. We got him over the sink and tried to rinse it. Ouch. Poor baby. And I was starting to lose it, because from what I could tell, it was tissue that I was seeing through the large (large for that tiny finger) amounts of blood. It wasn't a cut going down into his finger, it was a big gouge out of the top of his finger. It looked like his entire knuckle was gone.
We were finally able to get a bandage on there well enough to at least stop the bleeding, but not without getting blood all over another set of clothes.
What an ordeal. I got emotional. I was going to be out of town for the next few days, so I was already anxious about leaving my boy. Add on top of that pregnancy hormones going crazy and the stress of seeing your baby in so much pain. I was a bit of a
basket case last Saturday. I had to excuse myself from my niece, Elizabeth's, birthday party a couple of times.
But he's all good now, for the most part. If he could keep from bumping it into a million things each day, the scab might be able to fully form and make him another knuckle. But, you know little boys. I think we've got another good week and a half of hearing, "
Oww... boo boo!"