If you know Bennett, you know he is not shy. He is the most friendly, loving little boy. Anywhere we go, he is saying 'hi' to everybody. I love that about him, but it's also a little scary to think that he is so friendly and trusting with strangers. So I decided it was about time to talk to him about how sometimes strangers might not be friendly (well, a lot of strangers aren't friendly - heck, sometimes I'm one of 'em - but we're talkin' the right out mean ones).
So for the last few days, I have been telling him that we have to be careful about talking to strangers and that if anyone ever comes to our door and he doesn't know that person, he is not to let them in, even if they ask him to. He should go get Mama or Daddy right away. Of course that is followed by a "Why?" And I have to explain that most strangers are nice, but some are not, and we never know. (Anybody have any good tips on how to address this subject? It's hard!)
So now when we go out, he still says 'hi,' but he also points and says, "Mama, that man is a shtanger." I'm just waiting for him to call one of them mean to their face or something.
Anyway, yesterday we had our annual termite inspection. I heard the doorbell ring and knew that's who it would be. Bennett went ahead of me to the front door and I heard him say, "Hi! What's your name?" Then I heard him say, "Hi John." He hadn't opened the door, but as I approached I still felt like I needed to remind him and said, "Bennett, what have I told you about strangers?"
Bennett said, "But Mama, that's not a shtanger. That's John."
Oh boy, this is gonna be a tough one.
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